Love is horrible. You love your bf/gf, but you have to stress you self out and make sure they don't cheat. Second, if they cheat you have to hear their, "oh i love you im sorry ill never do it again" speech. Third, if you forgive them you have to make sure that they don't cheat and be paranoid. Lastly, there's guilt you feel like you weren't enough for them and your self-esteem goes way to the ground, then your left there...alone.