John strongly values his girlfriend celia and he encourages her to try new things. when she talks about going skydiving, he doesn't like the idea because he thinks it is too dangerous. john keeps his emotions in check, though and tries to find a creative way to let celia try new things. john is probably using the approach to conflict in his relationship with celia.

John strongly values his girlfriend Celia and he encourages her to try new things. When she talks about going skydiving, he doesn't like the idea because he things it is to dangerous. John is probably using the compromise approach to conflict in his relationship with Celia.
Compromise is when we give a little bit and receive a little bit. If John is valuing his girlfriend and he's encouraging  her to try new things but he is afraid that skydiving is dangerous, in that case Celia and John need to find themselves in the middle and find some compromise.

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