Is it good for a guy to marry a lady that has kids

Honestly this depends on your personal opinion.

You have to ask yourself some questions first:

-Do I want kids?

-Can I take care of kids?

-How do the kids feel about you?

-How will being a stepparent change your lifestyle?

-Can you handle the fact that your spouse has an Ex?

-Does she want to have more kids? If so do you?

I can not preach this enough as I am only 17, but if you are going to step in and be a dad to those kids, don't treat them like dirt on the bottom of your shoe. My stepdad stepped in my life when I was 2 years old and has always treated me like his own kid, no matter how many times we argue or disagree.

So the answer to your question really is . . . Are you ready to be a husband and dad?

If not then don't marry her, because you will damage those kids more.

of what agreement it does not show

a.. a conflict between her competing identities.. apex