Children who are high in self-esteem generally have parents who

   Who have reasonable expectations for their children and are willing to discuss rules and discipline with their children

Explanation:  Self-esteem and narcissism should be distinguished here. While narcissism is a sense of grandiose self-view, self-esteem is a sense of self-worth. Self-esteem is that we feel positive about ourselves and children who have self-esteem have a sense of love, belonging and competence, they are all likely to become normal, healthy and happy people. The parents of such children always leave the possibility for the children to decide for themselves, with guidance of course and consideration of what should and should not be done. In such children, parents develop reasonable expectations of life, and with the choice they leave to their children, such parents are willing to negotiate rules with their children, not to impose them.

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