well, surprise! I've been warned to stop asking question like my last question, or my account would be deleted, and you all need to know WHEN my account does get deleted I only met a few nice people, mostly the people that commited on my depressing question. but the one that actually helped me was: whatsthepointanymore, I thank all the nice people here (because I obviously met some mean people here) I'd like to say to the people that are self centered slobs here, that it was nice meeting you, but I'd never like to see you again.