What kinds of stragies do you think may be in learning how to be a more forgiving person?

I think its more of understanding and  just knowing where you stand. But not forgiving is technically not holding a grudge/// More like not letting the person getting close as you once were but moving forward. 2. Forgiving is not forgetting. To forgive more you should ALWAYS look at things the way the other person is/would look at it. Put yourself in their shoes. 3. You have to understand why they did what they did or at least hear/listen to what they have to say. You should always listen, because maybe there was a misunderstanding.

Well take a look at yourself first and understand what kind of person you are. Another first step into learning how to be more of a forgiving person is to have compassion and also learn to let things go and be like water . Avoid telling People what to do.Settle down your emotions. Focus on your strength and blessings.