There is a chance of more disputes in on extended family. why​

the extended family is not as close-knit as your 'direct' family members such as your parents or siblings or children who you know very well and spend a lot of time with and would generally share somewhat similar values however with extended family members, they have their own 'subunit' of the family that might operate differently and hold different values thus disputes might arise

it hurts at first because " the cherry is broken" which is a thin layer of skin that breaks so the first time girls have sex it hurts and it bleeds but after the first time it does hurt again because the skin that ia torn does not break again/ grow back.