An ilocano song that tells about courting a girl with a heart of stone

Pamulinawen

[from Wikipedia] "Pamulinawen is a popular old Ilocano folk song possibly from the pre-Spanish era. It is about a girl with a hardened heart. who does not need her lover's pleading. It is about courtship and love."

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