The best order of steps for conflict resolution is to ?

Define the source of the conflict. The more information you have about the cause of the problem, the more easily you can help to resolve it.

The best steps would be to identify the source of the conflict, what the disagreement is about. You should try and establish a common goal between the two, breaking down any barriers that may cause more conflict. Then, you should agree in the best way to resolve the conflict. Both sides should acknowledge the agreed upon solution and determine which responsibilities each party should have in order to keep the conflict down.

Iwould say being around others who are not drug free is the wrong step because your peers are likely to influence any new or past habits

Ok, before buying a burger. think of you diet and calories. how many calories are you suppose to eat a day. and look at how much fat, calories, salt is in it. if it is ok to you, then buy it. but if you think that it's to much fat and salt for you. don't buy !