I have a question. If you have friends who, whenever you text them and they are the first to reply but whenever you are there, they NEVER text you, are they genuine friends? Or are they just not conversation starters and hold up to “they are antisocial people” status?

it really depends. it's possible that they just aren't good at starting conversations, but honestly if theyre your friends, that shouldnt really be an issue lol.

if you feel that you are always the one to text, try not texting first for a while and see if they text you first.

if they do, then congrats but still look out for some other red flags.

if they dont, then that usually means they dont really care about u enough to text you.

"antisocial people" status is so overrated bc everyone throws it around like it doesnt mean anything nowadays so thats some bs lmaaoo. you would know if they were actually antisocial or just not genuine friends.

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