Read the following excerpt from t. s. eliot's "the love song of j. alfred prufrock":

and indeed there will be time
to wonder, "do i dare? " and, "do i dare? "
time to turn back and descend the stair,
with a bald spot in the middle of my hair—
(they will say: "how his hair is growing thin! ")
my morning coat, my collar mounting firmly to the chin,
my necktie rich and modest, but asserted by a simple pin—
(they will say: "but how his arms and legs are thin! ")

which two themes does this passage most clearly develop?

a. it is important to consider other people's feelings; the mind can play tricks on you.
b. the world focuses too much on outward appearances; one shouldn't try to live up to others' expectations.
c. the modern world can be isolating; one must dream big in order to accomplish one's goals.
d. do not judge others unless you're willing to be judged; it's better to be yourself than to pretend to be what you're not.