4.) 7 Steps to Self-Advocacy 1. Recognize that success or failure is responsibility 2. Understand your and areas of and learn ways to ___.Learn how to your needs to others. 3. Develop good skills to assistance 4. Know when you need help and ask for it. Understand that it is to ask for ! Everyone needs help now and then! 5. Know and your strengths and areas where you need to Be with yourself! 6. Develop and use ___social and skills, 7. Be ! It relieves stress and demonstrates good planning ability​