How can you make your narrator seem like a real person? Explain the narrator's entire life history.
Give him or her a special way of talking.
Change narrators whenever the setting changes.
Have the narrator describe himself or herself.

Have the narrator describe himself

Explanation:

he is suggesting that this widow is a strong woman, who is giving constructive criticism and she has enough to worry about, and she takes care of him, so he does not take it to heart.

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