Aphra behn lived and wrote in the 1600s and was the first woman in england to make a living as a professional writer. a political spy, playwright, novelist, and poet, aphra broke social barriers while her literary works tackled controversial topics, including slavery, racism, desire, and gender. her writings were considered scandalous for the time. a thousand martyrs i have made, all sacrificed to my desire; a thousand beauties have betrayed, that languish in resistless fire. the untamed heart to hand i brought, and fixed the wild and wandering thought. i never vowed nor sighed in vain but both, though false, were well received. the fair are to give us pain, and what they wish is soon believed. and though i talked of wounds and smart, love’s pleasures only touched my heart. alone the glory and the spoil i always laughing bore away; the triumphs, without pain or toil, without the hell, the heav’n of joy. and while i thus at random rove despise the fools that whine for love. how does the structure of the poem affect its meaning? the stanzas combine to convey that relationships are complicated. the stanzas alternate between describing love as uplifting and as disappointing. each stanza describes how the speaker takes for granted love from others. each stanza explains why the speaker believes that romance is important in life.