Which of these sentences from the passage most directly refutes the counterclaim? (5 points) "if we give up trying to make the right decisions, they might get the message that we don't care about their future." "we can take comfort in this much: we teach our children even when we're not trying to." "admittedly, that attitude is not without its benefits, but it goes too far in the other direction." "children are much more observant than we think, but often draw the wrong conclusions from what they observe."