How does the order in which odysseus reveals himself to his friends and loved ones build suspense

He reveals himself to friends and family by seeing his trusted allies first.  Then his maid sees the scar on his leg.  He also shoots the arrow effortlessly through the rings and later he reveals the secret of the bed that confirms his identity.

i think it could possibly be b

1. ( 3rd option ) peter gets into a fight with the musician because they will not play a happy song for him.

2. ( 2nd option) petty arguments like feuds lead to pointless tragedy .