At a conscious level, aaron doesn't think he's prejudiced. yet he automatically feels uncomfortable in situations where he has to interact with people of different races from his own. aaron's experience best illustrates the distinction between

someone i feel is a leader in my life id have to say would be my mother because she has give me great advice in life and got me out of tough situations. some characteristics she has are creativity, honesty, commitment, respect for others, and communication. one example of a situation when she demonstrated leadership was when i was working late on homework and i started to get stressed and got upset, she asked me if i needed some , and she me with my work. she demonstrated communication and commitment.

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